How to Be the Perfect Party Escort in London
Party bookings are always good fun, and when done right, can make you a regular very quickly. When done wrong, however, they can also make a client decide not to book you again.
All it takes is one mistake. You're not in private, after all, but in a public London setting. People are watching. His friends may be watching. Sometimes his colleagues are watching. Even the smallest mistake in such a high-end environment stands out.
So, for the high class London escorts who are new to luxury nights out with clients, this guide is for you, on how to get these kinds of bookings done the right way. Follow our tips closely, and you'll be remembered for all the right reasons...
Contents:
- Understanding What You’re Actually There To Do
- Preparation Before You Even Leave Home
- The First 10 Minutes: Setting the Tone
- Reading the Room Like a Professional
- Conversation Control & Social Intelligence
- Drinking Without Losing Authority
- Handling Attention From Other Men
- After-Parties, Extensions & Knowing When to Leave
What a Party Booking Actually Requires From You
Before you even think about outfits or drinks, you should know that a party booking is usually about public impression.
Your client may be meeting friends, colleagues, business partners, or other high-net-worth individuals, and in a settinglike that, your behaviour reflects on him. If you are over-familiar, overly flirty, loud, bored, glued to your phone, or trying too hard to be the centre of attention, it looks very careless on his part.
That’s why you need to identify the purpose of the night early. Is he hosting clients? If so, keep the conversation neutral and intelligent, and let him lead introductions. Is it a celebratory night with close friends? You can be a little more intimate and playful, but still maintain your professionalism. Is he clearly being discreet when it's just the two of you on a night out? Then avoid drawing attention. Stay close to him and don’t encourage unnecessary interaction with others.
Your job, after all, is to read the dynamic and support it. That means paying attention to how he introduces you, how much physical contact he initiates in public, and how he behaves around different people. Most mistakes happen when escorts assume the tone instead of observing it first. If a client wants to enjoy your company in a high-end environment, but you're being loud and attracting too much attention, well... let's just say he won't be impressed.
Preparation Before You Even Leave Home
Before the evening, make sure you know exactly what you’re walking into. That means learning both the venue name beforehand and the type of crowd it attracts. A private cocktail in a discreet Mayfair speakeasy operates very differently from attending a high-class event as an escort.
Plan your logistics properly. Know how you’re getting there and how you’re getting home. If the booking doesn't involve you going home with the client, don’t rely on finding a cab at 2 am in heels. If the booking runs over, you don’t want transport stress affecting your mood.
Have a simple cover story prepared about what you do. Nothing too elaborate... just something short and believable in case someone asks. You don’t want to be improvising under pressure, and also remember to talk it through with the client as soon as you can.
Clothing-wise, choose something that complements your beauty but doesn’t restrict movement, since you may be seated for long periods. Remember to also keep your bag small and practical. Bring essentials only. And one more thing - eat beforehand. You'll need plenty of energy for the night ahead, and relying on canapés and cocktails rarely ends well. More often than not, clients will normally treat their companion to a dinner date in one of London's best Michelin-starred restaurants, but this isn't always guaranteed. Check with your client what the full plan is.
What Happens in the First 10 Minutes?
The beginning of a party booking is where you quietly establish your role for the night. If meeting the client at the venue, arrive on time and not excessively early.
When you greet him, keep it natural. A smile, eye contact, and light physical contact if appropriate. Let him decide how public that contact should be. If you’re meeting a group straight away, don’t jump into conversation immediately. Take a few seconds to observe. Who seems to lead? Who is quieter? Are partners present? Are introductions formal or casual?
When he introduces you, don’t overcompensate. Say hello clearly, smile, and then let the conversation flow. The worst thing you can do in the first few minutes is try too hard, whether that's being too loud, too animated, or too eager to impress. Once the tone of the room is clear, you can relax into it properly.
How to Read the Room
Once you’re inside, stop talking for a moment and observe. Who actually matters in the group? Not who is loudest — who is being deferred to? Is there a senior figure everyone listens to? Is it a table of equals? Are there couples present where the women clearly know each other well?
This matters because your behaviour should shift slightly depending on the hierarchy in front of you. If it’s corporate or business-heavy, keep your energy contained. Sit well, listen properly, and don’t over-touch your client in front of colleagues. If it’s a celebratory group of long-time friends, you can be a little more open, but be careful not to take over stories... and certainly don't compete with other women at the table.
Also, pay attention to how other partners are behaving. If the wives or girlfriends are reserved, match that tone. If they’re relaxed and chatty, you can open up slightly. The fastest way to make yourself uncomfortable is to misjudge the other women in the room.
What to Say (and What Not To)
If dealing with a client's colleagues or friends, keep your contributions measured. If someone is discussing business, ask a simple, intelligent question rather than pretending expertise. If a topic becomes technical, it’s fine to listen.
Have one or two neutral topics in your back pocket, such as travel, restaurants, fitness, art exhibitions, and current events that aren’t politically charged. These tend to work in almost any room. If someone asks what you do, answer confidently and briefly. A simple role in marketing, fashion, property, events, or something equally plausible is more than enough. Just remember not to over-elaborate and trap yourself in a story you can’t maintain.
Be Wary of Your Alcohol Intake
Yes, there will be drinks... and yes, you're there to enjoy yourself. But remember... people at high-end tables pay attention to who holds their composure.
It’s easy to match the pace early on. It’s harder to stay steady three hours later when others are a little looser. Eat beforehand, drink water between rounds, and switch to something lighter if needed. If a client insists on shots, politely decline or take a small amount and move on. You don’t need to prove anything... You just need to remain the calmest person at the table. The last thing you want is to make a mistake because of a littlle Ducth courage.
Handling Attention From Other Men
You will be looked at. That’s normal. What matters is how you deal with it in the moment.
If another man makes eye contact, a brief neutral acknowledgement is enough. Don’t hold the gaze and don’t smile in a way that invites follow-up. Return your attention to your client or the conversation you’re already in.
If someone at the table starts directing more attention toward you than necessary, keep your responses short and loop your client back in. Never agree to “speak later,” and never allow yourself to be physically separated from your client for a side conversation unless he clearly initiates it.
If someone becomes persistent or overly familiar, don’t escalate it publicly. Move closer to your client, lower your voice, and subtly signal that the interaction isn’t welcome. Most men will back off when they realise you’re not engaging.
After-Parties, Extensions & Knowing When to Leave
Not every party booking ends the same way. Sometimes the night winds down naturally, and you part ways. Sometimes he suggests another venue. Sometimes, he might call it early and hint at continuing privately.
If plans change, stay calm and confirm the practical details. Will we be heading to another venue or back to a hotel? Is it nearby? Is transport arranged? Knowing the plan will at least prepare you mentally for what's next.
If you’re offering party services through Kings Lover, remember that your behaviour reflects on the agency as much as it reflects on you. These environments are high-end for a reason. Handle yourself well, and you won’t just get compliments on the night. You’ll get asked for you again.
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