In escorting, things don’t always go to plan. A booking that starts out smooth can take a turn, but that doesn’t mean you’ve done anything wrong. It means you're working in the real world, with real people and unpredictable moods.
What matters is how you respond. Composure, clear thinking and knowing when to walk away are what separate average escorts from those who thrive. If you're working as an escort in Dubai, where expectations are high and appearances matter, these skills become essential.
This guide will tell you when to step back, when to reset the tone, and when to end the booking entirely.
Contents:
It’s common for dates to involve alcohol. Most clients want a drink or two to relax but there’s a clear difference between mellow and out-of-control. The early signs are easy to miss: he starts repeating himself, gets handsy, talks over you, or loses track of the conversation. You might even wonder if he’s on something stronger.
Once it becomes clear he’s not fully present, your job is to manage the moment without making it worse. There’s no need to scold or accuse as that can escalate things. Instead, suggest ordering food, switching to soft drinks, or taking a short break, which can help him to cool down.
If he starts acting aggressively, that’s your signal to step away. Send a message to your driver or a contact. Do not stay out of politeness or feel pressure to continue the booking. By notifying your agency, it can help them to handle that client moving forward.
“Once a client slurred a demand, I could tell he was too far gone so I stood up, smiled, and made my excuses and then I left.” – Larissa
To learn more about how to manage in this situation, see our guide on how to handle drunk clients.
Take a look at Larissa’s profile now to learn more about her.
Dubai might feel like a big city, but in certain circles, it’s surprisingly tight. High-end venues attract the same faces, so it’s not rare to run into a previous client when you're off the clock, especially if you look the way our girls tend to.
You might be at the mall, walking with a friend, or out for dinner, when a man you've seen professionally tries to get your attention. Whether he’s subtle about it or not, the response is always the same: you protect your own discretion first.
Make eye contact, smile politely, and speak neutrally if needed. You do not acknowledge the booking, or anything related to it. If he presses further, stay calm and say something like, “Lovely to see you, but I’m with someone right now.” Then walk away.
Discretion protects both of you and is of the utmost importance in Dubai. If he’s putting your privacy at risk, he’s also putting himself in a compromising position and that’s on him.
“A former client once followed me into a shop trying to chat. I looked him in the eye and said, ‘Now’s not the time.’ Then I walked straight out.” – Maya
If you want some more advice for working in Dubai, see our guide to what it’s like being an escort in Dubai.
See Maya’s profile to get some more ideas for what to add to your own.
Sometimes a client will try to shift the goalposts once the booking has started. He might ask for a service that wasn’t agreed, he might offer extra money or he might start pushing for something unsafe, like unprotected sex.
You don’t have to negotiate. Your terms are your terms. That doesn’t change when you’re in his hotel room or halfway through the evening.
There are ways to say no that hold the line without causing drama.
The key is to stay steady, clear, and calm. If he doesn’t accept your answer, you’re free to end the booking. Respect and safety always take priority.
“Once I told a client, politely but firmly, that I don’t offer the service he was asking for and we moved on. Most clients respect a firm boundary’” – Jade
View Jade’s profile here if you want to learn more about her.
Some clients book regularly and treat you well or send gifts. Then suddenly they start acting like they own you.
Possessiveness isn’t romantic when you’re an escort, it’s a warning sign.
It usually starts with a client wanting to know if you’re seeing other clients or getting upset if you don’t reply fast enough. Then he might start talking about exclusivity, or implies that he wants something more serious.
When that shift happens, you need to stop it quickly. Try phrases like these:
Avoid using affectionate language and don’t try to soften things by pretending it’s mutual. If the client can’t respect your position, you should stop seeing him altogether.
“I have a genuinely good time with my clients, but when I shut the door that’s where it ends – and I make sure they know that.’” – Alma
Some men can’t separate fantasy from reality, but you need to be the one who sets the limit.
Visit Alma’s profile to see more from her.
You arrive for a booking expecting one client, and there’s someone else in the room. Maybe a friend, a girlfriend or he’s organised a threesome without telling you.
Bookings are one-to-one unless confirmed otherwise which clients should not before booking.
When this happens, stay calm, step aside and message the agency straight away. If it’s not something you’re open to, the right choice is to end the booking. Threesomes and couples bookings can be arranged but not as a surprise.
Soft skills will get you through the hard moments. Keep these in your back pocket:
“As a professional escort, I know I won’t be able to avoid trouble altogether, but I know what to do when it arrives.” - Vikki
Learn more about Vikki on her profile.
No one gets it right every time, but with experience, you learn. When you know what to do in various situations, you can gain more and more confidence in your abilities.
We expect every escort with Kings Lover to handle themselves with control, clarity, and absolute professionalism.
If you're ready to work with clients who value discretion and support that protects your safety and confidence, join Kings Lover today.
